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writes:I love to watch or help my wife masturbate two or more times a week. We do have great sex after the masturbation. She says she does not like it but only does it because I like it and the all around sex after it. How do I get her to maybe want to sometimes?Am I wrong in wanting this? Reply to this Question
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reader, LustyLisa +, writes (6 March 2011):
Most people consider masterbation to be personal and private and your wife may wish that her solo pleasuring be for her to experience on her own. If that's the case, you should respect her and allow her to enjoy herself privately. Men who insist that their partners masterbate are usually controlling, envious, and insecure about their own performance. She probubly feels that you are attempting to elliminate her solo time.Now, she says she likes the overall sex you have together afterwards which is something to build from. But, maybe you should ask her if she'd prefer privacy for masterbation prior to partnered sex together.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2011): You shouldn't force anyone to do anything, especially sexual. I've left people for reasons like this.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (5 March 2011):
 No you're not wrong for wanting it or asking. But if she doesn't want to do it, it is wrong to force her. She's probably feeling self-conscious or uncomfortable doing something so private in front of you. Try talking to her about it during a nonsexual time and see if there's something you could do to make her feel more comfortable. A lot of people feel ashamed about masturbation and it feels strange to do it while someone else is actually watching.
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