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writes:I just broke up with my boyfriend of 5 months, 3 months ago. I am still trying to get over him but i failed. He moved to another city after the break up to go to med school.He has a best friend. Their degree of closeness was always a threat to our relationship. At times i felt like he cared for her more than he did for me.I could see an instant glow on his face whenever i mentioned her name.Post break up they got closer. And they live in d same city. He posted the 3 magic words on her fb wall. And he posted on his account that ;she' was always the one.My instinct says that he meant her by the she.There couldnt be anyone else. He texted me the previous day asking if i knew one of his acquaintance.The conversation was brief.Im shattered. I love him so much and i want him back so badly.But he loves her and he even said that she is the one. This means that i never had a place in his life even when i was his girlfriend.I never had him.I want him back.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (6 March 2011):
 I guess that will only remain a mystery. He may have cared about you, and he may have got with you because he liked you, but I think he knew his heart belonged to his friend it may have just taking him some time to realise this. Am sure he never meant to hurt you in the process.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your advice....its hard for me to get over him....but i have to...y did he play with my feelings if he never loved me???
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2011): so sorry your heart is broken, but you have to let him go. His heart belongs to someone else which means that you and him just never were meant to be. You're in love with an illusion, that doesn't exist. it sounds like he always knew she was the one for him, you have to accept that. You've only invested 5 months into your relationship, you can move on. But you need to cut him out of your life in order to heal your heart. Unfriend him on facebook, or at least stop following him on facebook. Stop wondering what he's up to. there will be someone out there who's the one for you.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (5 March 2011):
Im so sorry that you have had to see this happen but sweetie you need to accept it now and move on, everyone gets there heart broken at some point but you just need to accept that he is not the one for you and keep looking until you find the perfect man who feels the same way about you as you do him. A relationship is a two way path and it sounds like he always had a thing for this friend am just sorry you had to get hurt in the process. But believe me you will find someone some day who wants you for who you are and you will be there one. You just need to concentrate now on mending your heart and getting on with your life.
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