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writes:Look I need advice. Last Tuesday, the day after Valentine's, I had a little fight with my girlfriend. We had never fought before. I sent a stupid text while I was very drunk. She got really upset because she said I was comparing her to my ex. After the fight, I called her to apologize. She said I was not ready for a relationship and that I need to figure things out first. She said she knows I'm over with my ex, but I need some time to get through because I brought my ex up in the text. She told me to call her this coming Sunday. Do you have any ideas about what she is probably going say to me Sunday? I need advice please. I told her I learned my lesson and I told her I was very drunk. Thank you so much.
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reader, MissVee  +, writes (19 February 2011):
It sounds as though she's preparing for a break-up, but isn't fully decided if that's what she wants. It is difficult to say without knowing what the text message said.
In future, leave your mobile phone at home if you are going to drink :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2011): I would say that was a pretty dumb thing to do.. Whether your drunk or not. You shouldn't ever bring up an ex to your partner. I know from experience my bf has also brought his ex up while he was drunk.. I forgave him but every now n then it makes me think if he still thinks of her, maybe that is how your girlfriend feels.. Just saying your sorry doesent really mean that you are. you have to show her your sorry.. How your gonna do that idk that's up to you buddy,, good luck... ps she will probably make you feel bad for what you said. You would probably be highly upset if it was the other way around, what would u tell her? Probably make her feel bad also
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2011): What did the text say? Can you describe the interchange?
It's hard to guess what she might be thinking if we don't know what was said.
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