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writes:Last night I went to my school dance with my best friend (who is 2 years older than me and goes to the other middle school in town). We were dancing around and having the time of our lives when it happened. Her friend (lets call him Ty, two years older than me, different school) comes up to us and she introduces me to him, as I had never met him before. He says to my friend 'So, is this the girl who invited you here?' and he looks at me and smiles and winks. He starts dancing with us and im laughing because hes being a goof and being funny. Then a different song comes on (Only Girl In The World-Rihanna) and he grabs me by the waist and we start dancing. Close. Then he moves his hands from my hips to my middle and i move more away. He looks at me, smiles and laughs, i do the same giggle and we start singing along and having fun. Then the song hits a slow part and he pulls me in as close as we can get and he wraps his arms all the way around me, so his hands are on the small of my lower back and I rest my head on his shoulder and I hold him tight, and he does the same. And it felt perfect. Recently Ive been trying to get over this guy who broke my heart and he made it all go away. This guy has swept me off my feet, and I've known him for only 24 hours ( this all happened yesterday). He's sooo perfect. I think it might be love at first sight. Ive added him on Facebook since, but I havent talked to him. What should I do from here? Ask for his cell number? I dont know what to do , because I think he feels something too, but I'm not to sure, I dont want to freak him out by saying 'Hey' and him being like 'Why are you talking to me ?' if he doesnt like me back, so what should I do? And do you think he likes me? P.S. My friend says that hes a funny , sweet guy too :).Thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys! :) Im going to try and talk to him ! i get to see him again at HIS school dance on Wednesday which my best friend invited me to :P) so Im hoping that we'll get to know each other more! :)
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (19 February 2011):
 I think you should go for it, life is to short and yes it does sound like he does like you. Therefore talk to him over facebook and ask him for his number. Just keep it casual and say maybe i could get your number and we could meet up some time. At least that way its up to him then what he wants to do. Go for it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2011): That's adorable! You just have to find out if he was just joking around last night, or if he was serious.
Maybe poke him on fb and send him an i.m, send something flirty, like "so where did you learn such smooth dance moves ;)" anything about that night that you can think of.
if he shows that he's interested, flirt on!
if not, just kinda play it off like you were joking around too, and move on.
He seems like a sweet guy though, so give it a try
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reader, MissVee  +, writes (19 February 2011):
Ah, young love. Or, if not love, a whole lot of lust.
There are a few ways to approach the situation. The most subtle way is to use the Artful Gossip approach. Simply mention a few things to a few gossipy girls who are friendly with you, or accidentally talk about him just as he enters a room. "He is so amazing," said wistfully with a secretive smile tends to work very well. Oscar Wilde said it best when he said that women are never disarmed by compliments, but men always are, and the latter approach to Artful Gossiping is little more than indirectly complimenting.
Have a chat with him on Facebook. Social networking sites are dynamite when it comes to sussing potentially Important People out. See how he talks with his best friends, check that he has no girlfriend, and if it is all good, chat away. A simple, "The other night was really fun ;)" should get things started.
Good luck =)
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