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What can I do? my sister can do no wrong, I'm always to blame.

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Question - (19 February 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 February 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

family problem

my sister is 2 years younger than me and it always feels like my parents love her more.

It doesn't matter what she does, it's never wrong. But whatever i do is wrong. She crys when she doesn't get her way and goes to her "mummy" and then i get shouted at. I do well at school, behave perfectly, practice piano and always try really hard but my parents just seem to think i'm not good enough. We have chores and we take in in turns, my sister 1 week and me the next but she always finds some way to get me to do it. And whenever i argue and tell her it isn't my week i get shouted at. my parents tell me that they definately don't have favourite but it feels like they do.

She is only two years younger than me, she isn't that young and yet shes their sweetheart and i'm just the annoying teenager. What can i do

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2011):

shes the baby and spoiled there isnt much you can do but live with it. your parents will eventually learn later on when they are tired of her getting her way

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A female reader, morningstar9691 United States +, writes (20 February 2011):

Sounds like something every older child goes through. They don't love her more than you that's for sure. She's just the baby of the family, and they don't want her to grow up, that's all it is. If you really feel like they love her more than you, then you should try talking to them about it...talking always helps and maybe it would open their eyes. I had to do that with my parents and my little brother and now they treat us equally. Try it and see what happens. Good luck!!

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