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Having bad luck in the relationship dept so I'm thinking of losing my virginity to a prostitute. Thoughts?

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Question - (19 February 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 27 March 2011)
A male Poland age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Its terrible when a guy just has zero luck with women and has no break through what so ever. At what point is it time to decide enough is enough do you continue dealing with the pain and suffering or can one seek a sexual encounter to get it over and one with?

Unfortunately not everyone has the privilege to sit and wait for the right one to come along its bad enough that person might have to compromise everything they want in a partner just to have a girlfriend as is. They don't get to pick and choose. They will simply have to take what they can get if they are lucky. Where does one find happiness in this? Were does one find success? I'm under the impression that if you actually go this route you will have more success down the road.

Before I used to think prostitution was a terrible thing and why would anyone do it? now I understand why such a thing exists because some men are less fortunate with relationships and dating so the best solution would be to live out the things you want for a small time fee. At least you can say you've lived out your fantasys and such even if you have never found true love that lasts a life time. Some of us out there will never have that unconditional love but instead will have conditional instead or worst will have to pay as you go simply because you don't have a choice especially if you've explored your options. After all what would be a better way to make up for lost time?

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A female reader, teencrushoffender United Kingdom +, writes (27 March 2011):

teencrushoffender agony auntHey, I'm sorry to hear about your 'women trouble'.

You should not resort to losing your precious virginity to a prostitute. Think of the risks. Think of how many people they have been and how many STI's they could unknowingly be carrying.

Wouldn't you rather have sex as an act of love with the right person who has a mutual love and respect for you?

A prostitute won't be in love with you and could give you the wrong impression of what sex is all about. They may be experienced and give you a quick memorable good time but it will be memorable for the wrong reasons.

Be Safe, Not Sorry.

Good Luck In Love.

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A female reader, uksweetheart United Kingdom +, writes (6 March 2011):

hey, don't do it...whatever happens, never do it...you would better lose your virginity to someone who loves and cares about you, not your money...think about it

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2011):

alright i definitely wouldnt advise you to lose yourself to a prostitute. i would wait for a special person. giving up the v is a very important decision and you dont want to regret it for when you find the person you'll spend your life with

if you decide to go that route though use protection

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