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*pm100497
writes:Ok let's see if y'all can help me..Ok me and this guy only went out for a few days but before that we talked and flirted with each other and even after that we flirted and talked and texted and IMed on Facebook,and like whenever he had a girlfriend he wouldn't text me or IM me but we would still talk and flirt at school. But now he has a new girlfriend and they have been going out since Feb.14 (today is Feb. 19) and he won't text me or IM and I thought that was normal since he didn't do that when he had his other girlfriend. But now he won't text me IM me or talk to me at school. I mean the girl is at a different school in a different grade! They barely get to see each other. However he told my friend this "yeah she texts me and I would text back but I have a girlfriend" but now not even looking at me!? I need some help please I care about him.
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reader, apm100497 +, writes (20 February 2011):
apm100497 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionnah i meant when we were going out but whatever ill just see what happens
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (20 February 2011):
Well honestly, when you're younger you think you know what love is, and you don't. So I think teenagers may mistake a crush or caring about someone for love. And he may love you...but as a friend.
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reader, apm100497 +, writes (20 February 2011):
apm100497 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok so Pinktopaz..yeah i guess im being obsessive i dont know i guess since i have liked him for 3 years and he has finally like me!? i got a bit excited and now desperate for him back even if its just as friends...and if you dont mind..do you think people take the 3 words "I love you" for advantage?? cause after only a few days he says that..i dont know but thanks for all the advice you guys!!:)
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reader, Party rings  +, writes (19 February 2011):
Go up to him yourself when nobody is about and ask him why is he like this. If he ignores you, you are better off without him until he sorts his problems out. Once he has sorted them out, maybe then you can communicate together, but until then give him space otherwise he may think you're desperate.
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reader, courtnii +, writes (19 February 2011):
 Oh, i know how you feel..
You really need to talk to him about it, tell him you thought you were close.You really need to question him about!Same thing happend with me,I had a chat with my friend about it and he agreed that maybe he was alittle preoccupied with his gf to talk to his friends,he apologized for ignoring me and I was happy to get it off my chest!
You need to talk to him about it! =]
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2011): I think he's decided he's not interested in dating you and is now not going to talk and flirt with you. Sorry it's hard but that is how things go sometimes. He made a choice and it wasn't you. Maybe if you respect his wishes and don't push on him he'll come around eventually. But don't push him for now. Patience is a virtue in this case. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2011): lols he has a new gf and btw pinktopalz is absolutely correct.
but lols you shouldn' wait for him to break up,let him carry on and you find some other dude and go with him lols
hope it works
xx
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (19 February 2011):
You may care about him, but you just like the attention. Apparently he has the typical track record of dating in high school and doesn't date anyone longer than probably a month, but then again, he must really like her if he completely cut off contact. Get over it for now, he'll talk to you again when he and his new girlfriend break up. Also, don't you think it's bad karma that even though he has a new girlfriend (even if she is at a different school) you still want to talk to him and flirt with him at school? What if you had a boyfriend that did that with some girl at his school? You probably wouldn't like it very much.
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (19 February 2011):
Every person we meet is different and make us behave different. So, maybe, this girl really moved him and he's changed a bit.
Anyway I don't know if you are mad or worried about this.
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