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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Okay, long story short. We had feeling for each other. I got too aggressive and pushed her. She proposed that we didn't talk for 1 week. I talked to her friends instead about her during that time. She learned about it, got mad at me, and told me that she had feeling for me a long time ago, but it got less, and she told me to stop liking her. I then stopped talking to her.Before valentine, she told me that she was sorry that my heart was broken (I don't know why she had that idea). The next day I just thanked her for the concern and wished her a happy valentine. Then she told me that should could not sleep the night before. I didn't say anything back. My valentine gift arrived, but was not delivered since there was no one at home. She got home at 7pm, and though the post office has closed, she still rushed out to pick up the package, and thanked me for the valentine gift.The next day she sent me pictures of her lunch just out of the random. Later she tried to chat with me, and asked me if I have been busy lately. I just told her that I had been, and were being busy, so I would talk to her later, and wish her goodnight.The day after that, she asked me a question where suppose that I have a gf, and my gf went out with a guy who is her old friend frequently, and I don't know that guy, then what would I feel. I managed to redirect the question at her where she said that it was not acceptable. I told her that she just answered the question. Then she said that she was arguing with her friend who is being the "gf" in the question. I said goodnight, but she asked me to give her my direct answer, because before I just borrowed her answer. Then she told me to keep this between me and her, because her friend told her to not tell anyone, but she trusts me.The following day (Friday), when I was taking a nap, she emailed me to ask if I know how to do some file conversion (pdf to doc, but whatever). I just told her to copy and paste. Then she gave me a sigh, and said that there are 18 pages. And then another sigh, that she could not do it because it's all picture. I told her to send me the file so I can help her, but she just did not respond for the rest of the day.Could someone tell me what the heck is going on in her mind? What does she want? I think her last action was not appropriate at all, because at the very least she should let me know if she wants my help or not. Reply to this Question
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