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writes:Hello everyone,I'm 15 years old, I haven't had a boyfriend, I've been asked a couple of times but I'm not interested. Every boy I know behaves in unacceptable ways. They're cocky, or not sensitive, too sarcastic. Don't get me wrong, I can take a joke but I'm not attracted to boys - or girls at all for the record. Now I'm starting to worry. Everyone has at least kissed a boy. I haven't. All the others have all done "things." I havn't and I don't want to, I want the right person if I find him, I've noticed I'm quite shy around boys, I don't like talking to them much, I prefer to be away from them, I feel they constantly assess women/girls on their looks, and I'm worried I'm not really pretty, and I do need to lose a little weight, I want to be a vet and travel, I love horse and get very attached to animals and I am very sensitive. I'm a vegetarian, will there be men who are still attracted to me because of what I am interested in, not what I look like - which isn't really much. I want someone who likes what I like then I will kiss and ... with him. Is this acceptable because loosing your virginity under aged is what everyone else is bragging about. Am I normal for not wanting to? Any help is always apreciated, thank you. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you everyone, you've really helped, I really apreciate it. You've all given me more confidence and I'm not ready, I control what I do. I hope there's someone out there but I'm not ready to find him yet. Thank you all so much.xxx
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reader, hotredhead +, writes (19 February 2011):
 finally someone sensible!! There are 15yearolds talking about having babies nowadays!
Anyway if i'm honest (im 18)and i advise you not to get involved until you do find the right one, i started dating when i was 15 and it wasn't right for me. You'll soon find out that men are the bain of your life (a little negative sorry)
On the positive side yeah someone will like you for who you are regardless of the fact you're a vegetarian or love animals there will be a boy out there like that too!
And no losing your virginity under age=not a good thing. Just because the law says you're allowed to have sex at 16 doesn't mean you're ready.
you sound like a mature headstrong girl stick to your guns you're going the right way!
:) xx hope this helped a little
oh and as for the the pretty thing beauty is in the eye of the beholder :)
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reader, BeautifulCapricorn  +, writes (19 February 2011):
dont worry about it you are only 15 ... i used to be like that when i was 15 ... the older you get the more your mind will change ... when you get to 50 thats when your mind will be stable
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reader, cupidscurse +, writes (19 February 2011):
To be honest, you sound like I did when I was fifteen years old. It's a known fact that girls psychologically mature a bit earlier than boys, and, you're not the only one who feels as though they can be immature and stupid. Also, I think it's brilliant that you have genuine ambitions and interests, and just because you're not interested in boys right now doesn't mean you never will be. Maybe in a few years when the boys catch up, your feelings on the matter will be a bit different. It's perfectly normal and shows independence of thought, not to be dragged along with the crowd. Your day will come, sweetie :)
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reader, AuntyMaur  +, writes (19 February 2011):
 Stick to you principles. Dont allow peer pressure to rope you into doing something your not ready nor want to do. I admire you for staying true to yourself. What's the hurry anyway? Try not to worry so much about what others think, it's what you think about yourself that's important. Stick to your guns - reach for the stars and don't settle for anything less than what you deserve.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2011): I had my first kiss at 20. I was focusing on other important things in my life and getting to that place where everything was perfect for me and the timing was right. I wanted to finish school get a career and then pursue a relationship. I entered college and got pregnant and now I am having issues with the guy. Sometimes you just need to stick to your own plans. Sure you like the goof off teens, but you want someone that reaches your maturity level. Don’t worry everything will be fine with or without a guy/girl.
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