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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hello Aunts and Uncles,I could really use some advice, and I've been feeling a bit lonely lately. I would really like to hear your opinions.When do you know that you have absolutely no chance with someone, ever? In other words, that you've lost that person forever?For example, suppose someone is interested in another person or in a relationship and thinks of you a a friend... do you think that it's certain that you have absolutely no chance with the person, EVER?I certainly would never break up another person's relationship, and I can accept an honest answer. I realize that it's unwise to put your life on hold for one person and I would never do that. I have recently moved to another country (I'm NOT in Ireland now), and I've made friends with several people whom I really care about. I wouldn't say I'm in LOVE with anyone, at least not now. I would like to have closer friendships with the people I know and when I see other people enjoying a closeness that I don't have with anyone, I feel a little depressed. I WANT my friends to be happy (I pray for their happiness more than once in a while) but it makes me feel envious when one of them gets into a relationship. I think... ''Is there ANYONE for me?'' This sounds unbelievable at my age, but I've never really had a boyfriend (or girlfriend) or any sort of real relationship. When one of my friends gets into a relationship, part of me is happy because they're happy, and part of me feels blue, and detached because I don't have anyone of my own, and above all the ideal person for me (I don't know specific names) would be someone who is a friend, not just a boyfriend. I'm confused, a bit blue, and really could use some advice! Thanks if you can help me.
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