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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:the other night my boyfriend and i were at a party where it was mostly my friends but a couple of his too. we had all been drinking a lot and i was having a laugh and a joke with him and his friend. they both speak french and said something about me as such. later i asked my boyfriends friend what it meant and he wouldn't tell me, he was winding me up about it in a jokey way and i gave him an 'oh tell meeeee' *thump*- so like a jokey punch. anyway everything was fine until wednesday when my boyfriend called me up on his friends phone because his was out of battery and he'd lost the charger to have a go at me for punching his friend, as it seems that his friend has told him that i full on punched him. The signal cut out half way through our argument and i tried to call back a number of times as i presumed he would still have the phone in his possession. whilst we were arguing he said that his friends had become upset about what had happened so i spoke to one of them to apologise and try and find out why my boyfriend was so angry. my boyfriend eventually called me back to have a go at me for talking to his friend and phoning back (though i maintain these were sensible options). Also, i left a voicemail that his friend showed to people and he is blaming me for but i wouldn't expect his friend to violate our personal business. he then asked me to give him space for a few days and he would call me when he got back off holiday on monday. I'm worried that he believes his friend over me and won't 'forgive' me for something that i don't believe i am responsible for. it seems that in trying to make it better i have actually made it worse, it seems like such a stupid thing to break up over and i'm not sure what to do if he doesn't call me when he get's back, does this mean it's over? or should i call him? i'm going crazy, please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, 101xoxo  +, writes (20 February 2011):
ok i think that you should chill first of all i didnt understand half of your story but what i understood sort of was that he is mad at you for calling hes friend right? and for something about punching hes friend for joking well if im right or atleast half way i think your boyfriend is a jerk just like my ex he gets mad for every little detail and i think its stupid to be upset tell me about it ive been dealling with mine for 3 years and just 2 days ago we broke up i still love him but im trying to avoid him by hanging out in the park mall movies whatever makes u happy thats all that matters girl or boy? so live your life stop trying for someone who wont respond i know how it feels trust me no men is worth the agravation i feel sad too and im going crazy but eventually you have to learn how to let go
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