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male
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anonymous
writes:hi after some advice pleaseive know this women for a year and half now i meet her when she started to work for same company. At one point when she first stared i was working with her we got on really well and i enjoyed going to work we had a awesome laugh was great, ended up getting her mobile number after a few months i text her her and said i like her, she was like i have a boyfriend i didnt know you like me like this, one week later she ask me out for a drink, i never made a move for respect for her bfive seen her a few times over the year out of work, once when i fell off my motorbike she came round to see me, when i hav had a day off work she rings me for know reason, we sit together at lunch times and she shows all the signs she likes meafter really getting to know her my feelings have really grown, i get the impression shes not happy at home with bf, first thing when i wake up shes on my mindrecently i opened up to her and said my feelings, and said i dont think shes happy, this didnt go down very well and was a little distent. not spending lunch together etc, she seams jealous when other women speak to me at work, i had few weeks off work she rang me but i didnt answerer and she was ignoring mewe are back spending lunch together and getting on well again, am finding it hard as i like her so much, i just dont know what to do for the best maybe she scared to leave her boyfriend i dont know
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2011): She is being kind to you as a friend and you like her but I think you're creating your own scenario in your head to justify being with her. you say you opened up your feelings and told her your thoughts and this didn't go well. well how did you expect it to go? Her admitting she loves you and running down a field of flowers with her arms open wide ready to embrace you? And why exactly didn't you answer her phone calls? To punish her for her rejection? You say she's jealous, how do you know this, you say she's scared to leave her boyfriend, how do you know this? As far as you wrote there's nothing to suggest she has any romantic feelings for you at all, all of it is from your side. Look she's got a guy, just keep it friendly and stop looking for things which aren't there, it's possible she just wants to be friends with you and nothing else. Good luck.
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