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writes:My fiance had cheated on her husband and divorced. She still says the ex is her soul-mate. AFTER WE WERE ENGAGED! All the sudden she said we were through. She wants no contact anymore. Just 2 days prior we had sex and fun. But she couldn't sleep that night after talking about her married ex. a week later she dumped me and said its her not me. What is the truth? Bet she had been having contact with him all along our year together. any advice she is 44 with 2 kids and a bad mother and selfish. I'm 51 and raised 3 great kids. her boys loved me. She did too. It was just all the sudden.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2011): if the married man was her first love, then maybe she isnt over him. she should have never dated you. she cheated once, maybe twice. its those boys whom need attention. to hell with her. she wasnt happy in her first marriage it sounds like. she's tainted to the max. sure you loved her. let her go and i bet she never has a real relationship for a long long time. its a real man to love other kids. she blew it badly.
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reader, firstlovelastlove  +, writes (19 February 2011):
 Being "men of a certain age" I'm sure you know love means different things to different people. You say she was a "bad mother and selfish". If she can't "love" her own flesh and blood I'm thinkin' she doesn't love or respect herself. I agree with "TEM" when she wrote: "she saved you from a lifetime of heartache".
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2011): well if she was a cheater then, then she probably is now. sounds like a selfish woman whom cannot be trusted. sex probably wasnt that good. women dont usually just up and quit a year long relationship for nothing. the ex is most likely having at her again. pity those poor boys! you sound like you really loved them. pleanty of women who would love to meet a man like you. good luck hunting
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reader, TEM +, writes (19 February 2011):
 I agree with Denise, that gave you a short, sweet, and very much to the point, response. To put it another way - guess what you end up with when you settle for a woman who is cheating on another man to be with you? You end up with a cheater.
I understand you are upset with the situation, as it involves children, etc. That is really too bad. However, I think this woman has done you a favor by leaving. I think she saved you from a lifetime of heartache.
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (19 February 2011):
 Sorry to hear that. what a horrible shock for you.
I'n afraid you'll have to consider her your ex-fiancee now.
Sounds like she would definitely not be a good candidate as a potential wife for you, anyway.
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