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anonymous
writes: If i treat a girl like a princess and she thinks it's weird, because she has never been treated like this, will she come back?. I have cut all contact if she texts me, i don't respond. will she ever realize what she had? Will she ever come back?
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reader, firstlovelastlove +, writes (20 February 2011):
"i treat a girl like a princess" "if she texts me, i don't respond." You wouldn't respond to a "princess"? I would start responding with either a happy face or something "short and sweet". I'd keep your texts light and fun. Humor goes a long way. If and when you two visit face to face just smile and listen to her. Even a princess needs a "soft place to land".
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reader, Capri2 +, writes (19 February 2011):
Will she ever realize what she had?
She will be with someone else and then she will be able to compare. So yes, she will realize what she had. And then she may reach to the conclusion that she likes more what she had or she likes more what she gets now. Because there are people who don't like being treated well. Girls when young use to like being treated "bad". I mean, they like the bad guy who is usually more sexually appealing. Once they get rock'n roll enough, they start looking for someone reliable for getting married. Some foot-on-earth guy able to support children and a house.
Will she ever come back? If she does come back after "rock'n'roll" I would recommend not taking her back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSee I was the first boyfriend that supposedly all her friends liked. I just don't understand her I realize she says something and does the other. I understand what she does is how she truly feels. She ran to a guy that all my friends think is a scumbag. I just don't want her to get hurt but, I also don't want to be her friend because I know what I could give her. So I have to let go like everyone tells me, but I don't because I know what it could be if she let it. She even told me it could've been wonderful and I asked, “Why did you give up?”Do you think by me leaving her life she will realize how great she had it and come running back or will she go back to scumbags who will hurt her?
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reader, Eilish +, writes (19 February 2011):
Well to be honest, you get so many females nowdays complaining that they don't get treated right, because lets be honest, some of them don't. You say you treated this girl like a princess, which isn't a bad thing? If she wants to run away from this, let her. She's never been treated like that before but she's also probably never experienced a harsh relationship before. Most females would love to be treated like a princess, therefore if she's running away from your affection, let her, and give it to someone else who deserves and appreciates it.xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2011): If you cut all the contact how you can expect she will come back?
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