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writes:Look I need advice. Last Tuesday, the day after Valentine's, I had a little fight with my girlfriend. We had never fought before.We had plans for Valentine's Day. I bought 2 tickets to go to a concert, also I bought flowers and chocolates, but my girl had a problem before with kidney stones. It's very painful when you have kidney stones. You have to go right way to the hospital. It’s very painful and you can’t stand.So on Sunday, one day before Vday, my girl texted me saying her car was acting weird and she said she had to take her car to the mechanics very early on Valentine’s day to get it fixed it, so she can see me. She loves her car to death. She doesn’t get along well with her mother, so I told her if she needs any help I could ask my brother to pick her up, whatever is necessary. I can’t drive, so she said no, my car will be fixed by 6pm thanks baby. Then, time was passing I was suppose to meet her at 7pm the concert starts 8pm she lives like 30 minutes from my house then she texted me was 6pm she was saying her car didn’t get fixed, I will ask my mom to drop me at the metro I ask her do you want me to pick you up she didn’t respond me until 4:18am in the day after Vday. So I went crazy because the only person I can contact is her I just have her number. So I drunk and drunk and sent her a very Stupid text message Saying I was very pissed I was all ready, I said to her looks like she doesn’t trust me to tell me the truth, I said I don’t trust her. I said I'm not those players stupid guys fooling around F as many girls as they can, I'm just looking for a real love good luck to you. So 4:18am she texted me saying she just came back from the hospital she had kidney stones attack which is true about her car its true too I asked her why you didn’t say anything you hurt me on vday she said I left my purse at home I rushed to the emergency room which is true kidney stones its very painful people sometimes have hallucination you cannot think in anything else . How about your text she said I was very hard and rude I was very pissed I didn't know this was happening to much coincidence then she said I talk to you later so we spoke she said I was not ready for a relationship and that I need to figure things out first. She said she knows I'm over with my ex, but I need some time to get through she thinks I brought my ex up in the text she feels I'm calling her a bitch . She told me to call her this coming Sunday.I sent her this poem apologies her Hi. Nicole How are you feeling? I had to do this I'm falling apart I had been thinking about a lot. I'm not a good writer or when I speak English So I worked hard in this text so you understand meI’m saying sorry for being blinded,Blinded by the thought, saying blind words.I'm sorry for everything I have put you through,I was very hard on you.I'm sorry for all that's been said and doneI am the earth, you are my sunI'm sorry for not making everything rightBut the situation I was in made me very tightI'm sorry for not lending you a handIf only I could be a better boyfriendI'm sorry if it seemed like I didn't careI'm happy someone was there.I'm sorry for hurting your heartwhich deeply I hurt my heartFor forgiveness, where do I startalso she said to me to call her on Sunday she said to me I need to have some time 1 week to think about the text I sent to her she told me I'm not ready for relationship bla blaWhat do you think of the poem and should I send it?She told me to call her this coming Sunday.Do you have any ideas about what she is probably going say to me Sunday? I need advice please. I told her I learned my lesson and I told her I was very drunk. Thank you so much.
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