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writes:I like a girl and I want her to take notice of me, how can I let her notice me without actually approaching her and talking directly to her?
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reader, Empowering  +, writes (19 February 2011):
Call me Grams with some experience. What is her personality type--talks quite a bit (outgoing), shy, studious, athletic, etc. I assume you are somewhat shy. That is a good thing, so be proud of it. Then take another inventory: What classes do you have together, common friends, any hobbies or interests, books, etc.?
The easiest way to begin is taking advantage of when you pass one another in hallways or the classroom. Take a deep breath and slowly exhale (actors and singers do this to relax). Then smile, look her in straight in her eyes, and say "Hi" or "hey" or some such greeting. Keep your eyes on her. If she responds with a smile that reaches her eyes, then that is an indication she is interested.
Then or a little later, when passing again, ask a question about some assignment, upcoming game, television show, etc.
If the smile does not reach her eyes, that might indicate that she is not interested. Do not take this to heart. At your young age you are learning who you are and who brings out the best in you. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2011): I'm the same age as you but I'm American. I'm America it's all about swag. Swag is the way you present yourself. So wear nice clothes and shoes groom your hair properly and stay cool and collected at all times. This may seem shallow but you said you don't want to talk to her and this is how people first start to like each other physical attraction. Whenever you are near her and with friends try to always be the one talking so she will see your personality. You shouldn't be shy if you aren't talking directly to her and you can show your personality. So the basic notes you need to know are 1. Always portrait a calm demeanor don't show negative emotions like anger around her. And don't be shy either. Calm and shy are two different things you can be calm without being shy. 2. DRESS NICELY. If you are one of those people who don't care how they look you need to change now. If she doesn't like how you look she won't approach you. 3. Girls judge guys as dating material when you meet. They watch how you act around your friends so around friends show a kind and friendly personality. If she already has a good idea what kind of person you are you may be out of luck. I hope I could help good luck!
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (19 February 2011):
There's a lot of things you can do to get her to know you exist. But none of them will give you anything but that. Let her know you exist. Something she may be already aware of.
You have to face the fact that if you like her, as for being her boyfriend, you have to talk to her. If you don't, if you stay just beside her, only thing you will be in her life is the witness of her relationship with someone else. Any guy who actually talked to her.
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reader, Party rings +, writes (19 February 2011):
Im a girl and every girl likes a guy who is polite and is a gentelmen. Maybe get a excuse to help her with something if she offers.If you are still to shy to approach her get one of your friends to ask her out for u.If not then just give a smile regulary and be patient. Maybe she likes you too.
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