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Things were going good and flirty then he just stopped messaging me!

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Question - (19 February 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 February 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I've been chatting to this guy for a good few months now and we chatted every day and the past month and a half it got a little flirty and he kept talking about hopefully finding a "lovely girl" and then winking and hinting it was me. Then on Monday he sent me a text which was nice enough and since then he hasn't contacted me at all. I've sent him a few messages which have been read (BBM) but he hasn't replied.

Have I done something wrong? I thought if he was annoyed with me or didn't want to talk to me anymore he'd tell me/delete me off of Facebook and BBM, but he hasn't. On the other hand, I thought if he wasn't annoyed with me and just didn't want to talk at the moment then he'd tell me that as well.

Help.

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A female reader, Party rings United Kingdom +, writes (19 February 2011):

Send him a messege on facebook and ask if u done anything wrong.Some guys just need space for a little while to sort their head out.If he dosent speak to you withen the next couple of days maybe he has just moved on.Think aboutyour desition

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A female reader, janniepeg Canada +, writes (19 February 2011):

janniepeg agony auntI've played the online dating game. Being good and flirty is everyone's language there. If you aren't that way you won't get any interest. When people are online they are probably busy talking to a few other people too. It doesn't really matter who you are, the faster you can "click" with anyone in a conversation, the faster you get a date. Ending contact is a clear way to show he's not interested at the moment, but in case he doesn't get any date in the next few weeks, he might get back to you but you should be looking at other profiles (like what he's doing) and not waste time on him.

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