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writes:so me and this guy have been dating for 9 months ... in the first 3 months he tells me he just wants to be friends it hurt i let it go.. then he comes back he tells me that he needed time for his self to figure out if he really wanted to be with me .. he tells me that he wasnt over his ex and he didnt want to hurt me .... then he tells me he is done with her she isnt right for him she is nothing to him he has erased her out of his life .... should i believe this even though he had feelings for her but with me they are a lot stronger .... anyway so i take him back.. every since then he has been this wonderful great guy... then 7 or 8 months into the relationships he tells me he loves me ... he is ready to commit to me 100% ... so now im not sure if i should love him with all my heart or just be really cautions...
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reader, SweetSmoochy +, writes (19 February 2011):
 If you're not sure, take it easy. Even so, don't be afraid to trust and to love, especially if he has been treating you lovingly and well. If it seems like his heart is yours, don't be scared to give your heart to him. I was the same way. I had strong feelings for an ex, gave my new interest space until I was sure, and now we are extremely close and have a wonderful relationship. He has my whole heart, and my ex has none of my heart. It is very possible, in fact probable, that he is 100% yours! :)
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reader, guccimane99 +, writes (19 February 2011):
Take a chance. If you love him tell him you love him. Don't hold anything back and cherrish every moment you have with him. If you don't feel it then don't say it because noone likes to be lied to. If you're not ready to use the "L" word, then tell him you're not ready.
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