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30-35,
*intnoangel
writes:I've been getting mixed vibes from this guy for the last 6 (give or take) months. From the extremes of playfighting with me and teaching me to play cod for 6hrs, to completely ignoring me as if I were invisible. His own sister came up to me and told me he liked me, that he brought me up randomly in convos. But when I told her I liked him, and she relayed it, he denied it. I know I'm not exactly his "very petite" type, so maybe that's the reason. Whatever the case, I catch him starring at me ALL the time. I was making dinner, him and my roommate were in the next room over (living room) and he was completely zoned out on me. My roomy called him out, "hey, quit checking her out", jokingly and his reply was "oh, uh, I wasn't I was just kind of zoned out". Another time, we were all watching movies (me, my roomy, and him) and the boys were having a convo about tattoos and my roomy was gonna tattoo this guys ass. They then went on to be serious, "but no, we really should get tattoos". His reply to it, the whole while he was starring at me (VERY intently), was "yea, I was thinking that when you were talking about tattooing her name ... uh, I mean, your name on my ass" Then there is my roomy randomly coming up to me and saying this guy loves me, but it's not in his normal "joking" tone... sounded kind of serious. I reply "oh, I know, he comes over and confesses undying love ALL the time" and my roomy just kinda shrugged and walked away. Or once, I was sitting in the living room and this guy walks into the house. The entry was is in the kitchen, living room is an open shot to the right. He's talking away to my roomy, cuddling my dog (who adores him btw); he turns and looks at me and a massive smile rolls across is face "oh hey, I didn't see you there" the smile didn't leave and he just kept looking back.Just the other day my roomy took me to a job interview, last minute plan, and he says "oh, j wants to come" so we stop and pick him up. only thing he says the entire ride, "so where did you apply". after that he was silent. I had to stop at the store, on my walk back to the car I see the guys talking, I get back in and they're dead silent.The next day j shows up, I'm in another room out of sight, and he's asking if I got the job, and if I was working right then. When my roomy replied no, j asked where I was.I don't get it!! Me and this guy are crazy alike, to the point of saying the same thing at the same time. Same hobbies. Same taste in music. We both know it too. Why does he say he doesn't like me that way then act the way he does?!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (19 February 2011):
 Ok well it is obvious that he does like you, but he is fighting his feelings for some reason. You say you told his sister that you liked him but he reported back to her saying he wasnt interested. Well it could be possible he doesnt want to ask you out in case you dont like him and then he will feel worthless.
I think the only thing that can be done to get things started is if you are just up front with him alone. Ask him to meet up with you some day when it is just the both of you and ask him out on a date. My bet is he will be thrilled and then he will show you his true feelings. So I say go for it...!
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