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36-40,
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writes:I've been dating a guy for close to 2 years. We have a 6 month old baby and I asked how much he was getting back in taxes and he flipped like I shouldn't know. Then he proceeded to say all I cared about was his money. And when I said, "our taxes," he lost it and said it wasn't OUR taxes--it was his and the baby's. He left me a few weeks ago and we've had tiny conversations on the phone resulting in arguments because he always says I'm a negative selfish person. I don't understand why this is all happening. Why doesn't he want me to know? And why does he constantly put me down? I'm not a negative person but he drives me down so much that maybe I am. I don't know anymore. Well, anyway, any advice would be appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for the advice..
i just never been in a relationship with anyone before and in the beginning he made me feel so confident about myself and even took my v but after the birth of our son he keeps bringing me down and hiding things from me such as the money and secretly talking to his ex. i dont know if he cheated or whats going on there. its a concern bc she works so close to his job.
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reader, SillyB +, writes (19 February 2011):
 Because he is abusive. End of story. Its not you. YOu are wonderful and lovable and so special. This guy just doesn't appreciate what he has and has abused you.
Go to counseling and become educated. You'll be surprised how wonderful some guys out there are. Just wait for that one who is chasing you and makes you feel so special and loved.
This guy isn't worth further thought. A relationship with him is a HUGE headache!
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