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writes: i was with this girl for 1.5 years and we loved each other to death. we really had a lot in common and we really did enjoy spending time with each other. our relationship got so serious at one point that we were thinking about marriage(thank god it didn't happen)... so anyways she would text me everyday and i would text her everyday telling each other how much we meant to each other and how thankful we were to have each other in our lives because we truly changed each other. i was always there for her and she was always there for me. it totally sucks to say this because we are ex's now but she's technically my hero because of how much she changed me how much love and caring she showed towards me.so we broke up about a month ago and during that time i kept talking to her but she didn’t want to.she's on one side of the US and on the other side... so it got me mad that she didn't wanna talk to me. because i was mad first of all i was surprised because she would tell me she loves me and this and that but the minute she we broke up and she moved, she started acting like we no longer know each other! i was surprised and really hurt. because i still loved her as a person. so during that time where she didn't wanna talk i ended up bringing the past and how many lies she told me about guys and parties and stuff and it just made things worse.You might think that I was crazy to bring that up, but I only did it because when we were together, she told me she knew what she was doing when she got drunk just so I can let her go to parties but when I looked at her past conversation with her sister she was telling her that she just gets drunk and hook up with people and flash at random guys.To me that hurt me so much that til this day I still don't understand why she didn't tell me stuff like that. So anyway since we had a serious relationship, I didn’t let her go to parties because I was afraid she was going to hook up with someone.So anyway, I'm still not over her yet. I still think about her all day and night. I can’t sleep at night. I keep having weird dreams about her every night. And I really can’t concentrate on anything but her. So when I brought the past and told her all this stuff she was shocked and couldn't believe I knew all that stuff about her. she said she will never speak to me ever again and she wants to delete me from her life. she also changed her number so I wouldn't talk to her and she deleted me on fb and everything. I have send her many email apologizing, but she won't respond...the question i have is:will she truly not talk to me ever again? and will she ever miss me as a person?***btw, this is making me look like a jerk, but I truly loved this girl and she mean the world to me. and i for sure regret hurting her so much. what can I do to show her that I'm truly sorry for everything? or have her talk to me?***** I don't wanna be in relationship with her and she doesn't either. she told me she's completely done with me and she never wanna see me again. so don't say that I'm hoping that we'll get together some times because I'm not hoping for that. i just want her to know I'm sorry because she's my hero and someone I truly care about because she changed my life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2011): chances are she will talk to you again but as far as dating i dont think so. her pain is too deep to let go more than likely. i cant really speak for her but dont get your hopes up
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