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writes:My fiance and I we were fighting over a stupid phone..he turned it on and then i over reacted. he told me he wasnt doing anything, but he said i hurt him so much that now, he doesnt know what he wants from me.Meaning, like about the marriage part .he started going out, i told him how i feel, and he said i need help. so i agreed to go and get help. he says i am a bipolar and i said okay..the thougths i get in my head drive me nuts. Like when i get better is he going to leave me?what is going to happen later? i feel the worst and its upsetting me and i don't know how to help myself
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reader, kesson +, writes (21 February 2011):
There isn't enough information here for us to decide whether or not you are actually bipolar as your fiance claims...it's entirely possible he is mistaken. That being said, you and him need to get deep down to the roots of this conflict. What is really causing it? Are you frequently becoming enraged over small things? How about him? What role does he play here?
Everyone to one degree or another is a pop psychologist, and bipolar disorder is NOT something to label someone with offhand. I would suggest the both of you see a counselor together before jumping into labeling you with a mental illness.
If you do decide to get professional help, make sure it is from someone genuinely trustworthy and be ready for second opinions. Some are professionals, others pill-pushing shills. Be cautious, but open-minded.
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