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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi, so i've been seeing this guy for 2 months now and even though it's a very casual deal between us he was very intense about me at the beggining. I kind of did some damage and he didn't want anything to do with me after.. however he forgave me and started seeing me again. He's not intense anymore and lately doesn't txt or call as often.. So last night when i went out i drunk txtd him a few times asking to let me know if he lost interest, as i need to know what's up. No reply.He's a very upfront guy and a Cancer (which makes a difference about "disappearing acts" apparently) I need to know whether to try move on already or give him some time. Help me please!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2010): Thanks for the answer,
I acted inappropriately with his friends (didn't get with any of them, just an underwear party kinda situation) but he was told much worse things that I think he doesn't believe anymore.
As i said we made up, but things have been slightly different since, now escalating to him not even txting me back.
He is very caring indeed when i am with him, but i'm really at a loss here.
I'll stay patient i guess, hopefully it will pay off!
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reader, Jmtmj +, writes (18 November 2010):
 What exactly was this "damage" that you did?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2010): ~I'm a Cancer~
Your boyfriend is by nature a caregiver. He will subrogate his needs and happiness to insure those of whom are a part of his life, to the point where he will sacrifice his to insure that of one whom is a part of his life.
Your boyfriend enjoys being loved..BUT..he's defensive to falling in love...Remember he's the caregiver. No one can love him as deeply and unconditionally as he can another...hence...he's walked life in defense...loving...but careful not to fall in love.
He fell in love with you...and...You hurt him...So now, he's running from You...All the while finding that He can trust You with safekeeping of his feet and heart.
Be patient...
Babe, He's all yours~
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