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*onaname
writes:im dating this guy for almost 2 yrs. he had a gf be that left him without breaking up. he said he is not ready for a relationship right now bc he' has been hurt be4. should i keep hang on to this guy? or should i move on? he just want to date and doesn't want to take the next step. i told him how i felt and we stopped seeing each other once.i dont want this happen again, but i dont want to be waiting on someone that doesn't love me. i felt angry and unappreciated sometimes, everything we do i have to ask for it otherwise he wouldn't do. i dont know what to do. i told him i dont want things like that, he said give him sometimes? what does that mean? Should i wait for him to change bc if not, i m so miserable right now since i didnt' c him for month. plz tell me what to do.
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reader, nonaname +, writes (18 November 2010):
nonaname is verified as being by the original poster of the question i try to move on, thing is i feel angry and lost and at the same time miserable. i feel angry bc i told him how i love him and what i get in return is nothing,,,does he had a stone heart or something? Thing got worse when i notice that he didnt call or anything, he said he didnt have time, i know he is busy, but nomatter how busy ur if u want u could find time rite? it's easy to say "to move on" but it's not easy to do it. sometimes you just want to jump back in to that miserable hole ( mean back w/ him) better than feeling lost and hurt like this.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (18 November 2010):
To be honest, after 2 years there should be so much more between you and this guy. And there's just not. It sounds like he's not as interested in you as he should be, and it sounds like he's not over this ex. You haven't even seen him in a month.
I think that what you two have has gone as far as it can go. I don't see how this can go further with this attitude towards you. He's just not committing, and you can't sit there forever waiting for more to come along when it won't.
My recommendation is that you end it with him and move on. Find a guy who will commit to you.
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reader, Momoe  +, writes (18 November 2010):
It sounds to me like he is not over the other girl or that he is just no that into you. I suggest you move on. I guess you are in love but try not contacting him and see if calls you. Your said you havent seen him for month but is he trying to get in touch with you?If not, definetly move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2010): ~If you truly love him, you will respect him~
Your love for him will remain the same, and that's okay. You just need to set boundaries, because imagine how horrible you well feel knowing your behavior is negatively affecting him.
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