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He says this isn't going to work but yet he makes googily eyes at me!

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Question - (18 November 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 November 2010)
A age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Sorry if i ramble this one out. Basically i am one in a long line of teenagers with boy troubles. I actually can not believe the amount of headspace they take up! Ok so there is this guy and i was really into him at the start of college, we get talking and he tells me he has this new girlfriend and that he hoped i didnt think he was leading me on. Anyways he wasnt with her long and we got talking and both admitted we liked each other, we were flirting and chatting over the internet as we didnt speak much in college, although he used to stare at me and make eye contact without fail my friend are always commenting on it. To cut a long story short we were talking continuously quite recently and everything was going well then all of a sudden he goes really off. And starts babbling on how it isnt working, he hasnt really given it a fair chance to be honest he knows i still like him and i'm not caught up on him, i know you cant force someone to like you and im not going to lose sleep over it just that i cant not get him out of my head, and he still gives me eyecontact like heavily, all day - whatever im doing.. does this mean anything? can anyone help me figure out his behaviour...

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A female reader, muffy United States +, writes (19 November 2010):

muffy agony auntWell sugar,I hate when guys do that too.But what you really should do is just ask him if he doesn't think it's going to work then why does he keep staring at you.I think you should move on cause he's obviously playing mind games and you don't deserve to be treated like that.You deserve mroe.You could stay friends with him though.That wouldn't be bad.I hope everything works out for you.If you need anything just let me know.

Love and kisses,

Muffy33

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A female reader, petina1 United Kingdom +, writes (19 November 2010):

petina1 agony auntTake more notice of what he is saying. He probably can't help the way he is looking at you and you could be reading the wrong signals big time. If he says it isnt working then take it as that and don't waste your time trying to sort anything else out. Tell him to either do something about it or stop gawping at you.

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