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I'm a virgin male..will this help me find a better class of a gf, in the future?

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Question - (18 November 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 18 November 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, *igMac92 writes:

My friend has told me that not dating and being virgin through highschool will help me meet a better class of women. Do you think not going through the highschool drama will help me in the future?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2010):

Nime, how on earth do you and your brother find all these adult virgins to date that are desirable and have their sh*t together? I would love to have those kinds of options but it's practically impossible to find one adult virgin let alone enough to pick a spouse from.

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A female reader, Nime United States +, writes (18 November 2010):

Nime agony auntYes, it can definitely help you. My brother deliberately waited until he was in his last year of college until he nabbed a popular Bond-girl-type dark-haired beauty from Eastern Europe who is an academic star in math and our class valedictorian. They are both still together three years later earning their PhDs at top schools. She's the nicest girl I've ever met and a hell of a cook. I too made a smart move to wait and landed a very high quality guy (also a virgin) that way, but you're asking about being a guy and waiting so I won't go into details. Of course, in my brother's case, when he saw what he wanted he went after her relentlessly. You will also need to be on the lookout for what you want and make moves quickly once you find it. Anyway, I strongly agree with your friend that you should wait. My brother's girlfriend and I both agree that we would not have bothered with our boyfriends if they hadn't been virgins. I just didn't want to deal with the baggage, risk of STDs, bad habits and so forth of a guy with experience.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2010):

I don't think it's necessarily good. In my experience girls tell you it's great you are still a virgin but the benefits end there.

It's like being a nice guy. They want you to find a great girl, they think you deserve a great girl, but they don't want to be her themselves. There are too many bad boys they would rather be playing with.

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A female reader, pinktopaz United States +, writes (18 November 2010):

I don't think it will help you meet a better class of women (because you're going to meet all sorts of women...trashy ones, classy ones, and inbetween ones), but it may help you when choosing what you would consider a classier woman that fits into what you're looking for based on your own beliefs and what you have chosen. However, I think that dating is essential because without dating and meeting all sorts of women you're not going to know what you really like, once you figure out what you like and what you don't like, you'll know when you've met the right woman.

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