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I gotta feeling..He wants a threesome!

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Question - (18 November 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 18 November 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Well i just talked to my boyfriend and he says he is perfectly happy with me and our relationship. But i kinda get the feeling that he wants to bring another girl into our relationship because he keeps talking about it. such as asking me questions like "would you ever go bi" or "I would be so in love with you if we had a threesome". i don't feel like i need to do that just to feel special to him. Am i wrong for thinking this? should i just ask him? if i ask and he says yes i don't know what my reaction would be.i feel like i would just be mad at him.

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A female reader, largentsgirl89 United States +, writes (18 November 2010):

largentsgirl89 agony auntThreesome's ruin relationships and I'm kinda mad at him for saying "I would be so in love with you if we had a threesome". He should love you anyway. Oh, makes me mad.

I wonder if he would be as into it if it were another guy and not another girl? My bf would consider a threesome cheating.

Tell your boyfriend he can get that thought out of his head because you are not engaging into a threesome. If he needs one that bad, then he can find a new girlfriend too.

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A male reader, Jmtmj Australia +, writes (18 November 2010):

Jmtmj agony auntMake your stance on this very clear if he stops "suggesting" and starts "asking".

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (18 November 2010):

tennisstar88 agony aunthttp://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-man-wants-a-threesome-am-i-boring.html

No you're not, simply state you will not engage in a threesome. That is not for you, and it will do more harm than good in your relationship. Don't ask him, the next time he brings it up, tell him it's not happening so he can toss that idea right out the window.

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