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writes:so me and my boyfriend have been dating a little over a year.. we have had our problems where i want to break up its happened like three times were i get fed up and just want to leave him but he never lets me like he is like "you will never leave this relationship" or "i will never let you leave me"...in the future will this become a problem or turn into something bad? or turn into him controlling me? or has it already? Reply to this Question
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reader, MsVick +, writes (18 November 2010):
 He is trying to control you and he is threatening you in order to do it. RUN do not walk to the nearest exit on this one. He is nothing but trouble and if you value yourself at all take someone with you when you break up with him, it sounds like he could get violent.
good luck
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reader, philippa  +, writes (18 November 2010):
 Get out while you can .If you continue like this it will be much harder to leave him ,and he will probably be even more manipulating and controlling .Im speaking from experience and still dealing with it .Im 27 got 7 year old twins with him and been with him since 16 .Get out while you can and live your life because you only get one .
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (18 November 2010):
 He sounds dangerous, overstepping his boundaries. Be cautious, he is trying to strike fear into your heart, trying to make you afraid of leaving him. Leave him and get a restraining order.
I hope that helps.
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reader, Shygirl101 +, writes (18 November 2010):
Umm yes it will cause more problems in the future..it sounds like a sign of emotional abuse.i think he is controling you because if you want to leave and he says no and you still stay with him he is controlling you.by you listening to him your just giving him more power over you. you need to take your power back and leave him or it will only progress!!! no one can make you do anything you dont want to do
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reader, YouWish +, writes (18 November 2010):
 Yes, he's totally controlling you. Those things he says are veiled threats! You should break up with him with a couple of friends with you while you do it and get a restraining order against him.
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