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writes:ok so there is this girl that i like and has helped me move on from my last ex, we had a thing before my ex and i dated and now after a few weeks of breaking up with my ex i wanna try things again with this girl. Except that i dont know what she wants out of me and her...shes sending mixed signals and i feel like im in the dark about us. heres a little background of us:last saturday night we hung out at her house and ended up getting a little physical. we didnt have sex but came pretty close. and she was sooo affectionate that night it was unbelievable how close i felt to her. now, we hung out Thursday night which was boring cuz she was so tired she actually fell asleep in the car ride between the mall and my house, but she didnt wanna go home she insisted on still chillin with me, so we got to my house put on a movie and just chilled no physical ness nothing, she kinda acted like she wanted some space by laying on the opposite end of the bed. Now when we were driving home i got kinda irritated cuz i thought she was acting wierd so i was staring off into space thinking, and she turns the radio down and asks if i was alright cuz i looked angry, i didnt wanna upset her or anything so i kept to myself and told her that everything was fine. a couple times she said something to me i guess cuz she wanted me to smile, but when i dropped her off instead of kissing her or something sweet like i think she was expecting. i just gave her a hug goodbye. After i got home and she got done with her homework she txtd me calling me cute names and telling me that she wanted to go to bed but wanted to txt me before she fell asleep and all that. and today i didnt txt her till late afternoon telling her how shes the only girl that makes me smile and that i think about her everyday and have grown pretty attached to her. and she replied to all that by saying she only wants me to be happy and she trys really hard to make me feel happy, and that she thinks about me alot too. so i just wanted some opinions on where this is headed between me and her, i was ask her about a relationship tomorrow, nothing right now but maybe in a little bit, think that would be a good idea?
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (18 November 2010):
 I wouldn't dive right in and say " I want you to be my girlfriend".. it's kind of heavy. You're obviously attracted to her so why not suggest that you take her out on a date? Date for a couple of weeks, if you're still into eachother then go for it and say you want to be together. Something obviously went wrong with you guys before or you'd have never got with your ex in the first place.
Think of dating as a trial run, getting to know each other. I hope it works out for you :) xx
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