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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi, is my ex playing games? We broke up, 2 weeks later she's staying and sleeping in another girl's bed. She has been staying at a girl's place for 4 days now, she's told me they've done nothing. She's been sleeping in the same bed as her "friend", she said she's not really up for a relationship yet, she needs time. She asked me to move into the spare room. I'm so cut up about it and just want it to work.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (18 November 2010):
 Move on. They aren't just friends. Do what you need to in order to get over this relationship. Let it be over.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2010): ~IT's NOT ADDING UP~My ex dumped me 4 months ago, and the only thing that kept me from falling completely apart was the support of a dear friend who aslo endured the same and so turned to me for support.My friend and I slept in the same bed and even engaged in level 1 activity. We never engaged in sex, and even when we engaged in level 1 intimacy I always imagined it was with my ex. Now if I was living under the same roof with my ex subsequent the breakup, there is no damn way I would ask her to move into the spare room because because I'm still in love with her. And I know damn well I wouldn't have turned to another woman for support.Your ex has it good. She's fricken still living with you and even though you two are ex's how the heck can she tell you to move into the spare room and sleep with another girl??It's just not fitting into my head. I'm thinking like you...something's not adding up.OMG...If my ex was You and I were your girl, I would be in the bed with you and never would have turned to my friend for support.So what I'm saying here is sleeping in the bed with another completely void of romantic interest is possible..but..with respect to your ex, I think she's into the girl because if she was into you she would not have asked you to move into the spare room.Hell, I could only wish I was living under the same roof as my ex. There's no damn way I'd want her in a bed or room other than the one with me.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (18 November 2010):
 Dont move in with an ex, it is the worst thing that you can do believe me, it will kill you if you move in hoping to get back together with her and you are stuck in a room and her next door sleeping with another girl just dont do it.
Ok so she might only be friends with this other girl its hard to tell, because as am sure you know many girls sleep in the same bed together and dont do anything. But if you want to get back with her then tell her how you feel and ask her if you would be able to take things slow and work on it, but dont move.
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