New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login245057 questions, 1084625 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

Did it take you a long time to conceive?

Tagged as: Pregnancy<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (18 November 2010) 7 Answers - (Newest, 18 November 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I just have a simple question for everyone out there who has kids, or is expecting.

I would just like to know, did it ever take any of you a long time, months, years possibly, for you and your partner to conceive?

I know some people it could take longer than others, but is it normal for it not to happen right away sometimes?

Im not sure if this question makes sense but I worded it as best as I could.

My partner and I were just looking for a little advice. Ty everyone.

View related questions: conceive

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2010):

I am 20 years old and expecting. We've always wanted kids but this wasn't what you would call a planned pregnancy. I started taking prenatal vitamins for my nails and hair b/c i had heard that it makes it healthier. We we're going to have sex and we usually have a box of condoms but when we went to get one they were all out. We've been together for 3 and a half yrs and the condom has broke before and everything so I thought it would be ok to do it ONE time w/out protection. I'm assuming the prenatal vitamins had something to do w/it but we got pregnant the first time. But it normally takes most people anywhere from 1-2 years to conceive. I wish you the best of luck!

<-- Rate this answer

A reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2010):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thanks everyone! I just was not sure I see some women as soon as they have unprotected sex, bam they're pregnant.

Then I see some women (like my mom) who have been sexually active for years and have only gotten pregnant once (twice, etc.)

I havent been actually trying to get pregnant, but at the same time I have not been preventing it, and I was worried maybe there was something wrong.

but thank you guys C:

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (18 November 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntOf if you were on the depo shot, it can take 6-18 months for your body's hormonal cycle to go back to normal.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (18 November 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntYes it's normal for it not to happen right away..It can take up to a year to conceive naturally, after a year's worth of trying it's best to see your gyno so they can run tests and discuss alternative options if necessary.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A male reader, alex74 United States +, writes (18 November 2010):

alex74 agony auntIt took my wife and me over a year to get pregnant with our first child. We waited until we were out in the workforce and financially stable before trying though. We were in our early thirties at the time. My sister on the other hand, went off the pill and was pregnant in two months. It just depends on the fertility and timing.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2010):

o yeah i totally understand what you are saying.

for my first baby it took us about six months during that time i would think maybe i couldnt have kids but hey guess what 6 months later i was pregnant. now we are trying again its been 3 months now and still nothing so i guess just keep trying! its totaly normal

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, kirra07 Canada +, writes (18 November 2010):

It took me a little over a year to conceive. We weren't actively trying (like we didn't measure temperatures and hormone levels, etc to find out my ovulation time). We just had sex on a pretty regular basis, and it took over a year. Maybe 14 months.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "Did it take you a long time to conceive?"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0625440999974671!