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Hand job pointers?

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Question - (18 November 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 18 January 2011)
A female New Zealand age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey, iv just got a boyfriend who is really experienced and wants me to give him a hand job. Iv never given one before and was wondering if anyone has any tips please?!

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A female reader, MRose United States +, writes (18 January 2011):

baddogji

what do you mean verbal encouragement?

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A male reader, dirtball United States +, writes (19 November 2010):

dirtball agony auntYes, ask him what he wants you to do.

My pointer is to be gentle. Many women grab it too hard and that can hurt, a lot. Really, he'll enjoy most any attention you give him down there. Be open to direction. Don't take it as you doing anything wrong rather learning how to properly please him.

You could always get yourself a shake weight to build up the proper arm strength too. :-P

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (18 November 2010):

My advice is to ask him to tell you want he wants you to do. Let him tell you.

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A male reader, baddogbj China +, writes (18 November 2010):

baddogbj agony auntEnthusiasm.

Look as if you are enjoying it and not as if it is a terrible chore (even after you've been going at it 25 minutes!).

Lots of eye contact.

2 hands, variety, cup the balls.

Do be careful not to accidentally bash his balls - that puts everything on a down note.

Enjoy it when he cums. Don't look disgusted and try and wipe it up as soon as possible.

Plenty of verbal encouragement when he's getting towards the end.

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