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writes:I need help. Me and my fiancé been together for over a year and I have to admit...we are both sexually active. She says she loves my penis size but constantly reminds me that she wish I was bigger. My penis is 6" long with 3.5" girth but she says everything will be better if I was at least 1.5"- 2" longer. Is there a way for me to reach that length? Please help me..
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2010): First of all, I can't believe that your fiance would even say such a hurtful thing. Really... look how it has made you feel. There are times when common sense and love should help someone figure out when it is best to shut their mouth.
On the flip side, a grand canyon vagina isn't the best either. You are average, if she 'requires' a larger male member... has the uncaring nature to say so... then I'd hand her her walking papers. Trust me, anyone that clueless and unloving is a recipe for disaster... Criticizing a man's penis... is completely low.
I'd be more concerned about what her comments say about her... than what they say about you. You may love her... but I'm going to tell you straight up.. she doesn't love you.
Don't feel bad about that... that is merely a reflection of who she isn't.
Go find a girl who loves you for who and what you are. Trust me, the payoffs will be unlimited acceptance and devotion between two people.... Do not waste your time any further with this female.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2010): She can't be serious. She's wishing for added length, but not width? You are about average length and below average width. I'm sure most women would find your dimensions perfect, but the fact she wants longer and not thicker is baffling. Either way, she's nuts. Guys with 8 inch cocks are about 1 in 10 or less. She's in for a lot more dissapointment if you guys split up, which if you ask me...you should.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2010): another thought: get a vibrator or dildo in the size she says she wants and use it on occasion--she'll find out quickly to be careful what you wish for. it's not the size, but whether you know what to do with it...
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reader, charliesdevil73 +, writes (19 November 2010):
 Your penis size is perfect, your girlfriend is not. Next time she says that to you, ask her how big her vagina is to find a penis your size not big enough. Then walk away...from it all. If I were a guy with your endowments, I wouldn't stay with someone who doesn't like me for me.
Chances are, if she has a problem with the size now, she always will. And if temptation comes knocking, she will most likely open the door.
There are many women out there who will love you for you (and your penis size).
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reader, dmartin89  +, writes (18 November 2010):
 What an ungrateful girl!
Tell her you wish she was tighter, that will give her a lovely shock!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2010): Well, your penis is fine, your fiancee is not. Don't try to return tit for tat over boobs, etc, just tell her that your penis is great for you and you need to find someone who likes it just fine.
Then, no matter what she says, say goodbye.
Break it off, because if she is this way now, and you marry her, someday she's going to probably find someone with a bigger penis and hop on it because she can't resist the temptation to try a bigger one.
The guy attached to it could be a total asshole, but she won't care if this is how she is now, and she gets bored with married life and wants to try something else.
Yeah, women will tell you that penis size doesn't matter, and it may not for most women, but women do cheat for this reason, and curiosity.
Spare yourself the pain...because she seems like a total pain in the penis.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2010): In addition to all the other comments, which are good ones, most women don't really want an 8 inch penis. One word: OUCH! Seriously, it hits the cervix and can be painful! You are not inadequate and it's horrible that your FIANCEE is telling you this. If she really is not happy with your size, I think you guys need to re-think your wedding plans! And please don't mutilate yourself based on her comments--I doubt she really wants you to be bigger, but rather she is using your insecurity against you. Seriously sit down and analyze when she has said this to you--was it to get something from you, to win an argument, to put you down? Not a good way to start a marriage. Move on to a girl who appreciates you--all of you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2010): i think if u love someone u must not think this way.
u'll just love everything about that someone perfect or not perfect it was
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2010): Tell her you would have brought a larger organ if you knew you would be playing in a cathedral.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (18 November 2010):
 Is she high?
What if you started to tell her you wish she was tighter?
I think I would seriously re-consider marrying this girl...
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reader, drog +, writes (18 November 2010):
 Your penis size is not the problem here, it's your fiancee. Her comments about your penis, though honest, have no place in a realm of love and are adequate to those of men that make their wives get breast implants. Sure, wishes are wishes and she wishes for a larger penis the same way men do. But it is a whole 'nother story if she is telling you about it (to your face) and underhandedly fueling an unnecessary insecurity. What a dealbreaker.
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reader, artistical_bumblebee +, writes (18 November 2010):
 your fiance is being unfair i agree with danielepew give her a taste of what it feels like. next time she says something like that say to her i wish your boobs were a little bigger/smaller.
see how she reacts and remind her that she says it to you all the time and it's cruel. that you will not tolerate it anymore. why should you?
size does not matter it really is what you do with it,
so don't worry about it theres no point you should be comfortable with your body and to be honest so should your partner.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (18 November 2010):
 What??? You're totally and completely adequate and normal! Your fiance sounds like a real jerk. Daniel is right - criticizing penis size to a guy is like having your weight criticized as a girl!
Your fiance is seriously immature. 8 inches...really. I think she's dating the wrong species. Poor guy, don't let her make you self-conscious! You're totally fine! Studies show that the "average" penis size is between 5.1" and 5.9", so you're right in there!
I think she's doing it for power in the relationship, to be honest. It's a lack of maturity to demean someone as a way to control the relationship, as she's saying underhandedly that if you don't do what she wants, she can find someone who's better than you are. Don't give into that for a second!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2010): You mean there is a procedure that will increase penis size and make a man important.
Where do I sign up?
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reader, always ready to listen +, writes (18 November 2010):
please don't worry about your penis size it is fine it is an normal size.
my advice to you is to find some books that teach you to satisfy a women sexually there are many on the market this is more likely to help you than any surgery that might be suggested by others.
honestly women are all so different as are men but all you need to do is learn what turns your fiancée on and then you will find a better sex life with no complaints.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (18 November 2010):
 Not to speak ill of your fiance but what a bitch! Not cool at all. You're actually above average. The only proven way to increase your length is surgery, and that runs the risk of impotency. I can't believe she would actually say something like that. That's incredibly thoughtless on her part!
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reader, Odds +, writes (18 November 2010):
 Sorry dude, there is no safe, proven way to make your penis bigger. The pills have no third-party studies backing them up, and the operations have well-documented negative side effects that basically ruin your sex life.
Good news is you have a completely average penis, so you're better off than 50% ofthe guys out there.
Leaving aside all my other objections marriage, any woman who will criticize her own fiance's penis size (to his face *or* behind his back) is going to cheat, if she hasn't already, then divorce you and take everything. That is a dealbreaker. Save yourself ruination later and leave her. Sorry to have to put it that way for you.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (18 November 2010):
 No, there is no (safe) way to increase your penis size.
By the way, tell your girlfriend that you keep wishing she had larger boobs, blonde hair and a firmer butt. That will teach her.
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