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*ylan McK
writes:This is a very complicated problem, im not sure where to start. My best friend for 10 years is in love with my ex. It isn't a crush, he loves her like he has never loved anything else. I was genuinley happy that he did, because she deserves that after some bad relationships shes had since we split up. But she doesn't like him in that way, and i asked her myself she said "I don't think about Robert like that" so we decided i should tell him. Also Robert was extremley terrified that my ex is going to start doing drugs, i asked her to promise that she wouldn't, she said she couldn't keep that promise. And then we decided that she should stop having contact with Rob. This also means no contact with me. This was one of the hardest decision i've ever made. So i had to tell Robert that She can't be with him, and that she will start doing drugs. What i want to know is: Will Rob ever get over her? Have i done the right thing? Am i still a good friend for this? This has been so stressful to Robert hes been losing, sleep, hair, and attendance. Please help.
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reader, Dylan McK +, writes (12 December 2010):
Dylan McK is verified as being by the original poster of the question I agree, but my friends does not, the prospect of her taking something worries him. I have and do experiment, and don't see the problem with it
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2010): I don't really see the problem with her doing drugs really, about 9 out of 10people do drugs in there teens, some do it earlier and some later but I wouldn't stop liking someone because of it.
Best thing to do is stop talking for a while, build up his confidence, get a gym membership and whatnot then re introduce him to her, it works if you give it time. Trust me, I've experienced it first hand
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