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writes:Can a man still be classed as 'just being friendly/really nice' if he is asking a woman lots of things about her interests and remembering most of what she says. Also, the man in question makes time/goes out of his way to take me home from work whenever he can (even if its when I walk past his house after work and he happens to see me - he will always ask if I need a ride home).I'm having a hard time working out if this is genuine interest or if he is trying to see if I'm gullible enough to believe that he likes me more than just as a friend? He tells me lots about himself when I ask and equally asks a lot about me. Thanks for your help with this! Reply to this Question
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (18 November 2010):
 He could just be being courteous, friendly and enjoy your company. There's nothing that really indicates to me that he's interested in more here... but then again there's nothing to indicate that he couldn't be interested :D
Ya gotta take a risk to show interest, right now it sounds like neither of you are taking any risks. So make a move :)
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reader, AnaMarie91  +, writes (18 November 2010):
Make sure he's not gay first lol. But it sounds like he's into you. Have you seen him act this way towards other women? If not then he's probably a gentleman with class who is really interested in you. How long has this been going on, his "niceness"? Has he always been this caring towards you? Try going out to dinner or something that would resemble a date like a concert that's coming up or a new movie you've been dying to see. Kind of smooge it into a conversation or if y'all are comfortable enough just ask him if he wants to go. hope it works out!
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