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writes:I'm going to keep this short and simple, me and my ex are friends for say. We still do things together periodically throughout the weeks and months after our break up. We broke up around a year ago this month, it was hard on the both of us, her decision, she couldn't deal with the fact I was depressed and the requirements we both needed (we lived very separate lives and wanted different things). I wanted the simple life where basically I had a girlfriend who we just did stuff together, not partying and everything. We are both in college and parties, clubbing and drinking. She is liberal compared to me, I am conservative (mostly, get a few in me and watch out). The thing is, she got a new boy friend and at first didn't want to tell me (she wanted to wait a few months after they were dating before she told me), I found out through my network of friends. They have been dating for 9 months now, we dated for 18 months. I have noticed sometimes she refers back to our relationship (now I know this is common if you remain friends), but I have noticed she has been apologizing (She didn't believe me that one of her friends wanted her / was a dick and remained friends with him until 4 months ago once she saw his true colors) or thinking that I should be very annoyed with the behavior of her in the past. I was just wondering why even after all this time, she brings up the past? I just want her to be happy, I am fine with not being with her right now. It only hurts knowing that she was the type of person I wanted to be with, it was just we are on different pages in our lives, I know that most likely we will never get back together, so I have started looking for another girl. But I still wish I could get in her head, so if you have any advice and reasons why she would do this, it would be helpful?
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reader, WinnieThePoohRocks!  +, writes (19 November 2010):
she still has a bita feelings for ya , thats natural seeing as yee were together for 18 munths:O wow !
and seeing as yee still do things together , shes proberly thinkin about what went rong and that if things had worked out ye'd be doin these things as a cute cuplee .. just give her and her bf some breathing space and trust me when things get very hot and steamy wt her new man she'l just about consider you a mate ! never mind an ex :P
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