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26-29,
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writes:there's this boy i really like and sit next each other in math and he always sits so his arm arm is touching mine and if i move mine he'll strech out to be touching again but its not like he's like taking the whole table over. we dont really talk only a bit about the class. and he apprantly likes my best friend. what does this mean? does he like me? or just is some sort of human contact freak?
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reader, Odds  +, writes (18 November 2010):
 At your age, he probably is just unable to really control his hormones. He would respond positively if you started talking to him - perhaps too positively, tough to say. If you're not interested, just politely ask that he stop touching you, and then let it go.
I was similarly at his age, always wanting an excuse to brush up against a girl's arm or be in her space. Fortunately for me, I was more concerned with not appearing creepy than with actually doing what I wanted, but ont every guy has that level of self control (or maybe his hormones are just stronger than mine were). It's normal, if a little unnerving, but I believe it's harmless, and I'll bet he'll stop if you ask nicely.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (18 November 2010):
 Hard to say. Generally breaking the touch barrier is a sign of interest, but if you're not talking, why not strike up a conversation and see where that goes. How do you know he likes your friend? Has he told you that?
If you think you like this boy, the next time he does this why not try holding his hand. See how he reacts.
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reader, always ready to listen +, writes (18 November 2010):
it is always difficult to work out if someone really likes you
sometimes the first move needs to be made by you.
i would suggest that you try to strike up a conversation ask him a question about what music he likes and see is you get a response.
please remember to take things slowly and don't always expect you will get the response you want but it certainly sounds like he is interested in you boys can be very shy so just remember it may take time to win him round and build up his confidence.if you can manage to pay him a compliment you will notice an interest just by boosting him with confidence.
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