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writes:I have a friend that i have been seein off and on for about 3 years now.. He is from my past too.. I messed with him 8 years ago too. We had a bad year, because a ex girlfriend came back in his life a year ago. He tells me she is just a friend, n his lil girl is friends with her lil girl.. I feel like I love him, but we don't really have time for each other, n thought we were on the same level.. but it's been a lil rocky for awhile now. His B-Day is 2mar. So i told him, I'd like to see me for his B-Day.. He tells me he thinks he is goin to take a break from sex. He don't really feel like it. I feel like he don't want me no more, and don't what to tell me. He said he is bein str8 up with me, but I don't think he is. What should I do?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (18 November 2010):
I think you need to end it with him, permanently, to be honest. Everything here is just on/off all the time, and has been for 3 years. And all those years ago, it sounds like you were a bit on/off too. It's not just about sex, it's about everything. You've been on/off, his ex is back, he wants a break from sex, it's been rocky.
I think you need to accept that this never has been more than a casual thing, and never will be anything more than a casual thing. This guy doesn't really offer what you want. He offers a little bit here, a little bit there. But that's it. No commitment, no sign of moving in (I'm assuming you're not living together), no future. This just isn't going anywhere, and I think you need to really look carefully at your life and decide what you want from it.
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