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writes:I can't tell if he's interested in me or not....I met this guy over the weekend through a mutual friend. Our friend asked me if I thought he was cute because apparently I was flirting with him, and he was flirting with me, but I'm really oblivious to that kind of thing which is why I'm asking this question! So anyway, the weekend goes by and we were in the back seat of our friend's car (3 people were in the back, and he and I took turns being in the middle) and it seemed like he was leaning into me when he clearly had more room than he gave himself, but I couldn't really tell. We ended up locking each others' seat belts and having a tickle fight in the back seat and we were goofing off and stuff. Then I got a text from him after he left, saying he got my number from our friend and that he figured he'd text me his in case I ever wanted to hang out or just talk. That happened on Sunday. Now it's Wednesday, and we've texted non-stop since. He makes lots of jokes, and sent me a picture of the "beautiful" sunset he saw and also a picture of him with his friend's dog. HOWEVER, I know there's a girl back in his home town that he is kind of involved with, and I don't know how serious it is. I know they aren't in a relationship but they WERE, he refers to her as his old girlfriend, but his relationship status on Facebook is also, "It's Complicated." So I don't know if he's just being friendly, or if he is actually beginning to like me. Help?
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (18 November 2010):
 This boy is interested, he's going beyond being friendly..I would get a little more back ground info from your mutual friend on this "kinda girlfriend". Just to see how serious it is, how long have they been together if they're even together, is it an open relationship etc. Now does this guy go to your school, or does he live in another city? If he's not long distance, then I would make your move and tell him you're interested. Of course after you have discovered more about this old girlfriend..Now if it would be long distance, at your they're not worth getting into. Not to mention if this old girlfriend is right in his backyard you'd constantly have to compete with her.
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