A
female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:hello everyone,im 15 and im a 32 a and im size 6 or sometimes 8. im always being bullied about my boobs and i was just wondering if i can do anything to get bigger boobs? I've heard if i put weight on they will grow but im just confused and desperate to be normal and fit in please help x
View related questions:
boobs, bullied Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you all so much xx
A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2010): small boobs are sexy. Big boobs are sexy. Boobs are sexy. People who don't think so are boobs.
engage in things that enhance your love of yourself and your body. Make friends, do yoga or a martial art. Maybe see a therapist who specializes in self image issues. If you build a respect for your body, you will no longer care about this as much and it will improve your life.
...............................
A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2010): Bullies bully because they have low self-esteem and a poor self image. You are the normal one! You are acutely aware that these brutal people are in fact, bullies.
There are so many pretty woman who don't have to rely on their boobs for attention. My guess is you are gorgeous and they are all like green jello.
Noomi Rapace is an actress, and.. in my opinion, the hottest woman on the planet.
Who is your role model?
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2010): if these girls who are bullying you have big boobs then they're probable also selfconscious about theres as the probably sag and they probable have massive nipples. They sound like a bunch of idiots.
...............................
A
female
reader, dmartin89 +, writes (18 November 2010):
 I wasn't even in bras till I was 15! Now I'm 21 and a 36E!
They will grow in their own time. Ignore the other ignorant people, girls and boys can be harsh at your age. Remember they only tease because they are insecure themselves, 95% of teens are.
...............................
A
female
reader, muffy  +, writes (18 November 2010):
 Hun,who cares what other people think.Your boobs shouldn't be an important thing in your life.Be all natural and if people don't like it then oh well.You don't need them.You need people in your life that'll except you for who you are.You can still look good without ginormous tatas! And if the people that bully you only care about boobs,they have a problem.They will grow up thinking that you have to have nice boobs to be loved and you don't.If you need anything,let me know
Love and kisses,
Muffy33
...............................
A
female
reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (18 November 2010):
 Sadly, there's nothing you can do to get those boobs to grow any bigger of faster. FYI, a 32 A is normal at your age range. Your boobs will grow as you get older, and they may grow if you gain weight, but only a smidge of weight will go there, the rest it goes to the obvious places such as your butt and thighs. They finally stop growing in your early 20s, so you got a long way to go.
For now, you can fake it by buying padded bras to make them appear bigger than they really are.
These bullies are just bullying you over nothing because you are normal and average. Brush them off, because they are clearly uneducated about their own teenage anatomy. In fact, they're the ones that I feel sorry for because they're not too bright. Carry on about your business and don't let their taunting get to you.
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2010): ugh girl. be thankful i have a problem with my big boobs. i wish they were a bit smaller. and am not overweight though. Lol
so dun worry about it. some people just wish their boobs were smaller.
...............................
A
female
reader, peeptoe +, writes (18 November 2010):
Please don't do anything to your body. You are perfectly normal for who you are. You are only 15 and your body will continue to grow and change over the next 5 or so years. You have such an advantage! Are you athletic? DO you know that I would kill to be your size? I have been running for exercise since I was your age and WISH that my chest were smaller so that I could run with comfort. ANyway, be happy with the body you have. DOn't let people put you down over it. It will likely develop more as you get older and you will always look fantastic in clothing if they don't get bigger--you will be able to wear tank tops and tight button down shirts without looking like you are bursting the buttons!! See, there is an upside to everything. Seriously, do something that makes you proud of your body--start working out and dressing to augment your small size and the bullies will not be able to touch the inner you because you will be so happy with yourself.
...............................
A
female
reader, lacrymosa_652 +, writes (18 November 2010):
 If you're a size 6/8, it's natural to have smaller boobs. Seriously, if you had 34D breasts, it would look less natural! I'm sure you look fine the way you are. But as Cerberus said, you'll probably grow more. Some women's breasts are still growing when they're 18. So don't worry :)
But try to feel comfortable in your own skin. These people who are bullying you are pathetic. If you were a size 16 and had 34E breasts, you'd have bigger boobs, but they'd still find something to bully you about - the size of your waist, perhaps? Hold your head high and be confident about your body, and know that you have good body proportions. You are very slim so are likely to have smaller breasts. When you work up your confidence, and are happy with the way you look, it's less likely you'll be bullied because they'll sense they're not getting to you.
Also remember, what makes a person beautiful is the content of their character, not their face or body. If you're a nice person who's kind and respectful to people, you'll be superior to these bullies in every way. Don't let these people get to you, and don't think that the most important thing is to fit in.
...............................
A
female
reader, JustAGirl.x +, writes (18 November 2010):
 If you put on weight, your boobs wont grow, they will just get fat & soon as you have put on weight you will think your fat more than likely and want to loose all that weight & then say byebye to your boobies because all they were was fat.
You should try to ignore bullies, one day you will just laugh at how sad they was, I thought I never would but I do now. I know its hard, I was bullied at school all throughout secondary school & it really really was heartbreaking because nothing at all could be done about it.
You say your a size 6-8 & theres not many girls your size with huge big natural boobs! You still havnt fully developed yet as your only 15. If they don't grow in the future & your still unhappy with them the only thing to do then would be to get a boobjob if that makes you happy.
Personally I love the look of small boobs, they look good on girls who are your size! I dont like the look of small boobs on girls who are quite big. Sometimes I wish mine were smaller.
Hope I kinda helped:]
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2010): "desperate to be normal" what do you mean normal? You are normal, all shapes and size of boob are normal.
I love 32 a's. Plus you'll probably grow more. I know plenty of girls that had late growth spurts.
Look people are bullying you about your boobs because they know it bothers you, not because there's anything wrong with them. If you weren't happy with your nose they pick on that instead. Or your feet etc.
Seriously just stop letting it bother you, plus you might want to consider dealing with these people who are bullying you. You could have 34 d's tomorrow and they'd still do it. So you have to talk to your parents or teachers and get advice on bullying.
...............................
|
