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writes:Hi, just started dating this sweet guy, none of the three guys that wanted to date me, Lets just say hes a total sweetheart, weve been dating for a week been out 3 times, and weve always had fun, The problem is that suddenly im having all these feelings for him, we agreed that we wouldnt have sex untill it is the right moment,not rushed, or planed,he has got out of a complicated relationship and so have i, both been single for 4 months, what do i do, how do i tell him that im ready, and most of all how i realy feel about him
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2010): It was the right thing to do
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reader, Simply Jane2011 +, writes (3 December 2010):
Simply Jane2011 is verified as being by the original poster of the question update, i finished the relationhsip today! it felt like the right thing to do, ther was no real spark in the relationship, ithurt to do it but it felt like the right thing to do, he dosent want to accept it but its best for the both of us
im not going to be in a rebound relationship
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reader, Simply Jane2011 +, writes (23 November 2010):
Simply Jane2011 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionUpdate, were still talking, he said he'd call me last night after his english class which finishes at 6pm, so 6 30pm would be the latest, he said his phone was uncharged, and called me at 8 45 pm sayin he called before, i have no missed calls, he gets super jelous and didnt text me this morning like he normally does, so i called him on the way to work today, like i usally do, and he said i was gonna text but it was "too early", and usally he texts when hes awake and i read it when i wake up, if im not awake, and h has been saying i love you a lot more than usual !!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2010): Glad to hear it x
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reader, Simply Jane2011 +, writes (22 November 2010):
Simply Jane2011 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much, i did tell him how i felt, and we both spent an awsome night together in a romantic hotel (his idea), and the good thing is that he hasnt avoided me, he sent me 2 texts saying that he had an awsome night,and so did i,
just hope it stays this way, anny ideas on how not to ruin things form now on? or on how not to mess up this relationship, because i know i love him,and he loves me !
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2010): why not ask him on a date for a meal where you can tell him how you feel, then ask (in advance) if he wants to stay at yours that night? Maybe don't eat too much food ! Good luck he sounds like a nice guy and you sound like a nice girl! Hope it all works out x
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reader, muffy  +, writes (18 November 2010):
 Well sweetie,sex is a big thing with people.Especially in a relationship.You should at least wait a month before you have sex because you need to make sure he's commited and not just using you for sex.If you seriously feel your ready though,then have him come over or go to his house and make everything romantic and just let him know your ready.Just make sure you really love the guy though.Don't just give it to a guy you like.Trust me,that's what i used to do and it comes back and bites you in the butt!If you need anything let me know
Love and kisses,
Muffy3
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