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*ollegeCutie
writes:so i began seeing this guy over the summer and he decided we shouldnt so long distance after about 2-3 months of dating and i agreed. However i know we are no longer gf and bf he asked to be friends with benefits when i come home on my breaks and such. When we talk he always says things to lead me on to the fact that he misses me and i feel like i'm still the only girl on his mind. is it a good idea to keep the attachment with him or should i just drop it and move on. hes a really good guy which i think is why i'm so confused on the subject. help please.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2010): Either keep it platonic or risk getting hurt. The choice is yours.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (18 November 2010):
 Just drop it. He'd only be using you for sex.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (18 November 2010):
 He couldn't handle the long distance relationship however he's down for nothing but casual sex when you guys are both home on break. I don't think so. FWBs is nothing but sex, it's a no strings attached, fuck buddies deal. Since he's your ex and you sound like you miss him then it's not in your best interest to engage in sex that's not supposed to involve emotion. Instead, you will be even more confused. Don't give into this, you guys can be friends but leave the casual sex out of it.
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