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anonymous
writes:hi i've been with this guy for about 4 years we recntly had a baby together, since before i got pregnant our relationship was rocky, but we decided to have the baby because we both thought it was the right thing to do, so far our baby is not the issue, the issue is that we both decided to just be neutral, but we still live together, do basically everything a normal couple will do,, we still have sex etc, my intentions is to move out so we live seperately, we have also decided to wait till we have a suitable arrangement which accomodates three of us, thats why i havent moved yet, but recently we got into an argument because a tex came thru on his phone which he desperately tried to hide and totally lied about it, but he has been seeing someone, i found out that he has been seeing her for a while now, but my question is was i wrong to be upset,why would he lie and try to hide it???? since we are now suppose to be neutral, but still do everything together and he has been with this person since before our decision was made,, i have spoken to this girl in question and she has no idea about me or he is still technically with someone else, so he has been lying to both of us Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2009): yes it is perfectly normal to be upset hunny and obviously times seem difficult rite now. i think it is a good decision to move out and as much as u mite not like it break of the whole neutral thing because hes been taking u for a ride. hes been cheating on u wen u have his kid. id say give him access to ur child but unless he is prepared to give up this other relationship with this other woman then ud be better off without him. beleive me things will get better and u will be better off in the end. this guy really dosent deserve the time of day. good luck x
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