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How do you respond to such demands???

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Question - (12 November 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 12 November 2009)
A female Australia age 41-50, anonymous writes:

This is a petty issue but I'm really annoyed with a friend of mine.

I've known her for about 13 years. We catch up about once a month and she calls me when she needs someone to talk to. She can be a bit rude sometimes but it's almost as if she doesn't know she's saying something wrong or inappropriate.

She's getting married in a month's time and I've been invited. I've been seeing someone for about 4 months and I asked her if he can come to the wedding. She said yes and when she met him a few weeks ago she 'invited' him herself.

I just sent the RSVP back to her and said that him and I are coming to the wedding. One of his friends is having a going away party that night as well and he told me that he might be a bit late for the wedding but should be able to make it. I told her this as well.

Now she calls me and tells me that he's 'not allowed' to change his mind because she's already paid for his 'food' and that she only allowed him to come to keep me happy because she and her fiance don't know him well.

I am just so annoyed at this. How do you respond to such 'demands?' I find it really rude of her!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2009):

He hasn't changed his mind. He is still going.

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