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writes:I`m a bi male and recently met assumed straight guy. We met as both of us are business owners in same industry and we found that by joining forces and sharing human resources we can accomodate our bunsiness` needs. Comments from him on how I look followed. Whenever we are together I would find him looking/ staring. Whenever I am in the company of other men, I seem to catch a hint of jealousy from him. A few nights ago as I wandered outside my garden (I swore) I saw an exact similar car to his stop, and then sped off (at 10:00 pm). The problem is he is married to a beautiful/ lovely wife with one son. This guy is so decent, so everything I would look for in a man, I really would want to be with him. Shall I hold on, wait for more confirmations and pursue him? Or throw this dishy fish back into the ocean?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2009): i would say get hold of him and give him a bit of what he wants...then you will both be satisfied and you can get on with things!! story sounds hot! lol, Enjoy Mr! xx
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reader, Unnerved +, writes (13 November 2009):
Unnerved is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanx to all agony aunts and uncle who helped me to stay sane. Due to the business we still see and speak to each other every day. It is hard resisting but that is why I so treasure the advice, it brings me back on the narrow. It seems like he is pursuing me now. He is a building contractor, I the property developer and it seems like he is following me from building site to building site (making up excuses for him being there). I realised today that he suddenly got a tan (a new look) and looks even hotter than ever. I am trying so hard to let him go.
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reader, Doug102690  +, writes (12 November 2009):
The man has responsibilities as a husband and father. It would only be selfish to pull him away from that; likely causing pain and stress to him, his wife, and even (or especially) his child. Even if his child is too young to be affected, he/she someday will be old enough. Just let him go.
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reader, Sweety123 +, writes (12 November 2009):
 why don't you try an experiment you now like flirt with another guy while he's around to see how he'll react. oh and it's not necessarily his car you saw it might just be one that looks similar to it, but if it was who knows cause thats kinda creepy. plus he's married and has a baby his eyes should not be straying they should be gluid to his wife and baby. so my advice to you is to throuw him back and keep your eyes peeled for the right someone who will come around.
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