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writes:hi im 28 and the guy i love is 23. i know him since i started my current job, i started 2 weeks b4 xmas in 2005 he was 19 and i was 24 when i first met him we connected on many levels then at the xmas party we kissed. at that stage he was in a relationship of 5 years and i was engaged to a guy of 8 years we both knew about each others partner..we start going out a lot more with the job than usual just to be with each other.. then we didnt use the job anymore i just met up with him at the weekends myself..in work we were all over each other we were insepreble. one day he said i dont think i want to be with her anymore and my reply to that was be sure what your doin b4 walking away u dont know me that long..after that we start having sex more and more i stayed in his house he stayed in mine.. this contiued and i ended things with my partner. but he stayed wit his eventually i ended things with him.. a girl started in my job and she became my friend and he became more friends with her and made me very jelous.. he rang me one weekend to say he was finished with his current girlfriend and was now with my friend.. i was heartbroken..she was let go out of the job soon afther an he got back with his ex and he became very distant..i moved areas in my job cause i couldnt cope seen him every day and making a thick out of myself constantly trying to talk to him.. i moved 4 a month and when i came back he ignored me..he told me he was moving in with his girlfriend and that he hates me, life on in the job was awful..i went to the the xmas party and for the first time she was with him she started a fight straight away i walked out.. i went to ibiza and he went also but different times we were away from each other a month and when we came back we fell back into our friendship immediately talking i find when were away from each other we look 4ward to see each other but soon afther he said i was getting to familliar with him but at after that he made it very hard 4 me where i had to work..recently i went out with the job and they were there but this time i stayed and ignored them that following monday he flipped at me an said stay away from him and his girlfriend. i taught f**k this and i avoied him.. but now today he is back looking at me always around me and trying to make me laugh everything he used to be. the question is am i setting myself up for another fall i need to know because i do still adore him
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reader, GrimmReality  +, writes (12 November 2009):
 Well come on now...People you cheat with are people that will cheat on you...I mean are you really surprised?You both were cheating on your significant others so in essence you go paid back in your own coin.Just let him go and learn from this.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (12 November 2009):
 You are wasting your time and risking heartbreak with this guy. This relationship is simply not worth it. Why you adore him I can't see, he sounds pretty immature to me. In the very near future I think you'll realize how fortunate you are to be shed of him. Keep us posted.
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reader, trigger18  +, writes (12 November 2009):
hey there,
after reading through this i feel that this guy has a very weird way of showing that hes a nice person towards you. i think that u may be looking at another fall because as soon as he decides that he dosent want anything to do with u anymore he will be horrid again. i dnt understand why he wud be acting this way like a friend wen hes been so mean wen he went sith someone else and tols u stay away from them. i think it wud be wise just to keep him a friend but dnt let urself trust him untill he proves that hes gunna be a faithful friend. u will only end up getting hurt again if u decide to get involved with him. by all means be friends but just keep it as friends. find someone who is worth being with and who wont turn on u wen a new person comes into the picture.
good luck xx trigger
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