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writes:hii am seeing a girl, i started liking her, before i even proposed i asked her about her past relationship, and she said she liked someone on the 1st day i met her, but there was no commitment.later on when i was deeply in love i came to know about her past relations through sources, but she was never supposed to confess this. Only when i asked her she told me, in fact she had no option than to confess... but she would have never ever told me if i had not come to know.. she said her ex boyfriend kissed her once and she had no time to react and she gave in.Later on there was a cold war between them once and and she forgave him... later on they wen going on again... she tells me he used to hug her and only kiss her on her forhead.. Never ever a smooch again.How do i know now that nothing has happened between the 2 of them earlier? She tells me all the past stories after i fell for her... and only after i came to know from sources... plz plz plz help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2009): the most key factor in a relationship is trust. if you have little trust then do you really think it is worth worrying yourself over this. you need to be in a relationship that you feel comfortable in and one in which there are little or no doubts.
if this woman says she loves you and you know you love her then you need to think about trusting her.
if you started a relationship with her close to when she broke up with her ex then she may still have feelings for him but it may not be the feelings that you think.
if you are in a strong relationship then there should be no reason for you to hide these feelings, you will just have to talk to her, let her understand how you are feeling and listen to what she has to say. imagine if you were in her position how you would feel not to be trusted.
good luck in love who ever it is with and all the best.
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