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writes:Do women like chubby guys? My bmi is 26.3 and at 6 ft I wouldn't say that's insanly bad and it's not obese but it's not great either, so what do girls think of chubby guys? Is it really off putting? Is a beer belly enough to make you not want a relationship with someone? Reply to this Question
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reader, AlissBonyt +, writes (1 May 2010):
I for one love chubby guys. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2009): Not to me. :D I love guys like this. :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2009): I think lots of women are attracted to chubby guys! There is nothing more annoying than someone who spends every day at the gym and expects you to do the same!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2009): PS. Part of the reason it's so attractive is that he is still sexually confident and doesn't try to hide any of himself away - he has a 'this is me' attitude that i love. Also, the fact that he's a tiny bit overweight reminds me of his immense passion for life and for cooking that are so much more important to him that having a flat stomach.... now THAT's a huge turn - for any woman, or man, with a soul :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2009): Until recently I always thought that I went for men that were 'athletic' simply because that's the accepted standard and I am very into fitness myself. But my current boyfriend is so not like this - hairy, chubby, a beer belly, a double chin - and I find him immensely attractive!! It's got so much more to do with personality and sexual chemistry than it does with how well your body fits some socially prescribed ideal. I have great sex with my boyfriend and actually find his belly a complete turn on even though he thinks it is the worst part of his body! Funny the agony that we put ourselves through when beauty truly is in the eye of the beholder. Good luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the replys, It's not entirely my fault that im not as healthy, i use to play rugby but picked up a knee injury in my knee joint which im having my final operation in january and after that the doctor said there shouldnt be any pain so i can probley get back to rugby if i mentally felt upto it, but i just feel insecure about the fact "I'm unhealthy and carry a few extra pounds and you (girl i've been flirting with) has a great body, Any advice on changing that mental thought?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2009): Absolutely, I will personally stand up and say that I am one! I think the heavier men are greatly attractive especially when there is a strong confidence around them. If you dress well, smell nice, have a great sense of humor and open your eyes to the rest of the world, you will see chubby guys are just as "in" as thin or fit guys, why? Because you are a guy. Aside from being heavy, what else is good about you? What do you do to stand out? Try to think of yourself as something other than a "chubby guy," you deserve too!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2009): of course woman like chubby guys i agree with the anonomous reply. my partner is chubby and i love him to bits. he gives me the security and friendship that woman like so there is no need to be insecure about ur image in any way. remember that the person whofalls in love with u will love u for who u are not because ur chubby. get out there and be yourself mate. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2009): I do! buts its just my personal taste xxxxx
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reader, Lou3  +, writes (12 November 2009):
Don't be discouraged over your size. When the right gal comes along she won't see your weight. I know that me myself, I am attracted to a man's personality and character etc...not so much his looks although there usually is somekind of attraction. You can win women over with charm and humor and the woman you do land will want you for who you are, not what you look like and that is real love ;-) For your own health though you might want to shed some pounds if you can? A man who can take the initiative to do such a thing is attractive in itself if you get what I mean..
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2009): Haha I guess it really depends on individual. As for me I don't really like very skinny boys as they does not give me a feeling of security that they can protect me. However, my crushes are all average size guys
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