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writes:hi, hope you can help me i just cant seem to get past first dates i dont know what im doing wrong , my last date was monday with a man i have known for five years i only know him to say hello to but on a night out recently his friends told me he has liked me for years and he eventually came up and asked my number, he was texting me all weekend saying cant believe havent got a boyfriend and all that , we went out monday to the pictures he was really nice paid for everything i did offer and we got on well i am quite sarcastic and so is he but i tried not to be too much but he actually said he liked my sense of humour an he would love to take me out again, he hkept saying all night your really nice i cant believe you said yes to me taking you out , when he dropped he home monday he sent me a message saying i really enjoyed tonight and really like you , since then though he hasnt really text me or has been quite short in his texts ,i dont understand it i do get asked to go out on dates a lot and i am quite sarcastic but thats me and i dont think i should change i love it when men are cheeky with me too what does anyone think thanks xx[Moderator's note: Please detail / give examples - in what ways are you sarcastic?]
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reader, Legioness +, writes (14 November 2009):
 If he had such a good time and so did you then screw it, don't be afraid, call him, say you'd like to see him at some point soon and see what he says! Do you know what his schedules been like lately? Has he been busy? Long days could be making him tired or stressed, which could account for the lack of talk in text messages. The only way you'll find out is if you ask him out again and see what he has to say :) good luck!
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