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writes: Hi,This is prashu. I have sister, 24 years old, she is in love with my husband's cousin (I came to know that recently).But the problem is he got married and he has 9 year old son.my sister is well educated and she is well settled.how to tackle this problem.?can I talk to my sister regarding this but I don't know how she react?or else can I talk to my husband's cousin?please give me suggestions. I want to solve this. I don't like this because he is 12 years elder to my sister.I didn't mention even to my husband because he will get bad impression on my sister ( I don't want that)please give me solution
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reader, el-joven  +, writes (12 November 2009):
 I hate to tell you this... but, all of you are adults. You are not to solve this "problem" just because you don't like this.
In fact, I'm not sure what the "problem" is.
If your husband's cousin is married and has a 9 year old kid... Then it shouldn't be a problem unless they're having an affair (I'm assuming they aren't). It's okay for someone to be in love with someone who is married, as long as your sister doesn't act on her feelings.
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